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Facing the Horror of My Sins

The Third Sunday of Lent (Year A)
(Note: This Gospel is also optional for Years B & C with the Scrutinies.)

Jesus said to her, “Go call your husband and come back.” The woman answered and said to him, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus answered her, “You are right in saying, ‘I do not have a husband.’ For you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true.” John 4:16–18

Today, we are given the beautiful story of Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman at Jacob’s Well. The story begins with Jesus resting by the well, for He was “tired from his journey.” A Samaritan woman approaches the well at noon, during the heat of the day, most likely to avoid the scorn of the other women who looked down on her. Jesus then does something that greatly surprises her: He asks her for a drink of water.

Jews used nothing in common with Samaritans, yet Jesus was willing to drink from her utensil. When she questioned Him about this, Jesus responded, “If you knew the gift of God and who is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”

The “living water” Jesus desired to give her was the spiritual gift of grace to renew and refresh her soul. His divine eyes enabled Him to see her spiritual hunger, and His compassion filled Him with a desire to free her from her many burdens.

The passage above might sound harsh at first: “For you have had five husbands…” Why would Jesus bring up this woman’s humiliating situation? Because she had clearly been searching for fulfillment throughout her life, engaging in one failed marriage after another. Now, she was living with a man who was not her husband, a reality that left her dry and thirsty.

By speaking this way to the woman, Jesus lets her know that He knows all about her, loves her, and longs to fill her with the satiation she has been searching for throughout her life. He does not judge or condemn her; He invites her to experience the freedom He longed to bestow upon her. After the encounter, the woman left the well overjoyed and even left her water jar behind, symbolizing that she was no longer thirsty—spiritually speaking. She then confidently went to the people of the town and said, “Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Christ?”

Each of us needs to see ourselves in this woman. Our sins fill us with shame. The guilt of our hidden sins weighs us down, leaving us thirsty. If we can identify with this sinful woman, then we can also expect the same depth of compassion from Jesus. Too often, we hide our sins, even from ourselves, justifying our actions, downplaying them, or ignoring them. That is not the path to freedom. Freedom only comes by allowing our Lord to reveal our sins to us, facing them, and encountering God’s abundant mercy.

Reflect today on the importance of opening your eyes to see the reality of your sins. Don’t run from your past—confront it, understand it, confess it, and receive the living water of mercy. The holier you become, the more clearly you will see even the smallest sins you have committed. That is good. It is necessary if we want to be healed and refreshed by God. Imitate this sinful woman today. God is never ashamed of us. Let the shame and guilt dissipate within God’s abundant mercy so that like this woman, you will know that God knows you through and through and loves you despite your sin.

My Lord and Source of Living Water, my soul is often dry and empty. I long for satiation and fulfillment. Please forgive me for trying to fulfill my soul through sin. I repent of my sins and ask You to reveal to me the full depth of those sins. As You do, please give me the grace I need to repent with all my heart so that I can be filled with Your abundant mercy. Jesus, I trust in You.


Cleansing Zeal and Authentic Faith

The Third Sunday of Lent (Year B)
(Note: When the Scrutinies are used at Mass, the reflection for Year A may be used in place of this one.)

While he was in Jerusalem for the feast of Passover, many began to believe in his name when they saw the signs he was doing. But Jesus would not trust himself to them because he knew them all, and did not need anyone to testify about human nature. He himself understood it well. John 2:23–25

Today’s Gospel begins with what could be described as a chaotic scene. Jesus and His disciples traveled to the Temple in Jerusalem to celebrate Passover. While there, Jesus observed the corruption of many who had used the feast of Passover to turn the Temple into a marketplace and an opportunity for selfish profit. Seeing this, He “made a whip out of cords and drove them all out of the temple area, with the sheep and oxen, and spilled the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables, and to those who sold doves he said, ‘Take these out of here, and stop making my Father’s house a marketplace’” (John 2:15–16).

The passage above presents the conclusion of that dramatic cleansing of the Temple. Many people began to believe Jesus was the Messiah, but their belief was superficial, based on the many miraculous signs He performed. Think about it: If you had been present at the Temple and witnessed miracle after miracle, what would you think? How would you react? You would most likely be amazed, follow Jesus around, and anticipate the next great miracle He would perform. But that’s not what Jesus wanted from the people. He wanted their hearts, not their amazement. Therefore, “Jesus would not trust himself to them because he knew them all, and did not need anyone to testify about human nature. He himself understood it well.”

In our lives, we must desire two things from our Lord. First, we must desire His cleansing zeal. We are also temples of God, and our souls are often filled with corruption. Like the moneychangers in the Temple, we sometimes seek selfish gain. We might want favors from God—miracles—not because they lead to authentic faith but for self-serving reasons. Our prayers often include requests that God fulfill our will according to what we think we need or want. This is not authentic worship nor the fruit of authentic faith.

Authentic faith leads to the desire that our Lord cleanse the temples of our souls from all selfishness so that they may become places of true worship. Once our souls are cleansed, true worship must be our goal. True worship doesn’t consist of asking for miracle after miracle; it means loving God with every fiber of our being, no matter the circumstances. It means believing in Him and seeking to serve His will without placing expectations or conditions on our worship.

If we were to rewrite this story in the ideal way, our Lord would arrive at the Temple, see a profound level of devotion and reverence, have no need to perform miracles, and encounter people who believed in Him solely because of His divine presence and the Word He preached.

Reflect today on the temple of your own soul. See Jesus coming to you and entering your soul. What would He find? Identify any selfishness. Make your soul a place of authentic faith and worship. Believe in Him not because of what He can do for you but because He is God. Worship Him as God within the temple of your soul, and unlike the people in Jerusalem that day, He will entrust Himself to you, knowing your particular human nature well.

My cleansing Lord, please come to me and confront every sin within my soul, every selfishness and false worship. Free me from the desire for countless favors that flow from my own will rather than Yours. Make my soul a place of true worship where I meet You, grow in authentic faith, and worship You as my God. Jesus, I trust in You.


Repent and Bear Good Fruit!

The Third Sunday of Lent (Year C)
(Note: When the Scrutinies are used at Mass, the reflection for Year A may be used in place of this one.)

Some people told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mingled with the blood of their sacrifices. Jesus said to them in reply, “Do you think that because these Galileans suffered in this way they were greater sinners than all other Galileans? By no means! But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!” Luke 13:1–3

Is it good and necessary to repent? Absolutely. However, hearing these words from Jesus can be challenging: “But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!” Jesus wasn’t only speaking to the people of His time—He is also speaking to us, to all people. Repentance is a universal call, one we all must answer.

It’s easy to think that being a Christian is simply about being nice, but ‘nice’ is far from the full message of the Gospel. True discipleship calls us to much more. Eternal life is attained only by repenting of our sins and fully submitting to God’s will. There is no other way to eternal glory.

Today’s Gospel ends with the parable of an orchard owner who planted a fig tree. After three years without fruit, the owner ordered it to be cut down to stop it from exhausting the soil. However, the gardener pleaded for one more year to cultivate and fertilize the ground, hoping the tree would finally bear fruit. The message is clear: if we do not bear good fruit for God’s Kingdom, we risk being “cut down” like the fig tree. Repentance is the crucial first step toward bearing good fruit.

How do you feel when you hear Jesus say: “But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did”? Repentance is essential for holiness, happiness, eternal life, and glory. It means being fully honest with ourselves before God—acknowledging our sins and shortcomings. This is the first, most beautiful, step on the Christian journey to holiness. Without this honest self-assessment in the light of God’s truth, we cannot begin to walk that path.

But repentance is just the beginning. Once we face and purge sin from our lives, the door to freedom, joy, and fulfillment opens. God does not call us to repent out of anger, but out of love—because He knows how sin damages our souls. His call to repentance is a call to true happiness, a happiness that sin destroys. When we grasp this, Jesus’ call becomes refreshing, like life-giving water for our weary souls.

Reflect today on the barren fig tree in God’s orchard. That tree is you. Don’t rationalize or ignore this truth. We must repent regularly because our fallen nature continually tempts us toward selfishness. By confronting our sins daily, we allow God to cultivate our souls with His grace, producing the abundant fruit He desires. The blessing is twofold: this fruit not only blesses others, it also brings immense blessings upon us. The more fruit we bear, the greater our eternal glory will be in Heaven.

My loving Lord, You call me to repentance out of love, desiring the best for me and inviting me to share in Your eternal glory. Grant me the wisdom to confront my sins, repent sincerely, and serve You with all my heart. May I bear abundant fruit for the glory of Your Kingdom. Jesus, I trust in You.


Provocative Holy Drama

Monday of the Third Week of Lent

Jesus said to the people in the synagogue at Nazareth: “Amen, I say to you, no prophet is accepted in his own native place.” Luke 4:24

Do you recognize Christ’s presence in others? Do you sense His divine presence all around you? In today’s Gospel, the people of Nazareth did not. Jesus, the Son of God, the Second Person of the Most Holy Trinity, stood in their midst, yet they failed to see Him for who He truly was. Many of them had watched Jesus grow up, knew His family, and were familiar with His work as a carpenter. However, they could not look beyond the surface to perceive the divine reality in their midst.

Though our Lord is not present to us today in the same way He was to the people of Nazareth, He is still with us in countless other ways—through grace, within the Sacraments, in the Scriptures, and in the lives of those around us. Yet how often do we fail to notice His presence in these familiar places?

In today’s Gospel, Jesus recognizes the hardness of heart among many in His hometown. He responds by recalling two stories about Elijah and Elisha—prophets who performed miracles for Gentiles rather than Israelites, because the Israelites lacked faith. Jesus’ message was clear: The people of Nazareth also lacked faith, and as a result, He would perform no miracles for them. This message enraged the people so much that they attempted to throw Him off a cliff. However, Jesus “passed through the midst of them and went away.” Imagine how dramatic that scene must have been!

Sometimes, we all need what could be called a “provocative holy drama” in our lives. Just as Jesus challenged the people of Nazareth for their spiritual blindness, we need to be shaken from complacency. God uses these moments to awaken us to His presence—whether in the Scriptures, the Sacraments, or the people around us. These “holy dramas” are not meant to condemn but to invite us into a deeper awareness of His love and presence.

Try to imagine yourself as a member of Jesus’ hometown. Those of us raised in the Catholic faith, attending Mass regularly, and striving to live as faithful Catholics can sometimes fall into a spiritual routine. The more familiar we become with God’s Church, the easier it can be to overlook His presence in the most ordinary of places. When that happens, God may use moments of “holy drama” to awaken us from our spiritual slumber. These moments are invitations to recognize His presence where we might have taken it for granted.

Reflect today on what it would mean to be in the crowd at Nazareth. Approach this reflection humbly and sincerely. Allow Jesus’ loving challenge to the people of His hometown to resonate in your own heart. Rather than defend yourself, welcome His gentle rebuke, letting it awaken you to His presence in the familiar. Seek Him with renewed attentiveness, and allow Him to lead you more deeply into His love.

My provoking Lord, Your love for the people of Your hometown led You to challenge their lack of faith. When I fall into spiritual blindness and fail to recognize Your presence, please awaken me. With Your love, shake me from any complacency so that I may grow in faith and become more attentive to You, especially in the familiar and the ordinary. Jesus, I trust in You.


Unfathomable Mercy, Received and Given

Tuesday of the Third Week of Lent

Peter approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.” Matthew 18:21–22

After replying to Peter, Jesus tells a parable about a servant who owed his master a “huge amount.” The literal translation from the Greek is “ten thousand talents.” One talent alone was a substantial sum, equivalent to about twenty years of wages for a day laborer. Therefore, ten thousand talents would represent an astonishing debt—roughly 200,000 years of wages, or about 24 billion U.S. dollars for a worker making $50 an hour.

It’s difficult to even fathom that much. Jesus uses this immense amount to emphasize His point. When the king in the parable decided to settle accounts with his servants and the one who owed him this enormous debt was brought before him, the king initially decided to have the man and his family sold into slavery. However, the servant pleaded with the king, asking for more time and promising to repay the debt in full. As a result, the king forgave the entire debt. This was undoubtedly a life-changing day for the servant.

Things changed quickly, however. When that servant encountered one of his fellow servants who owed him a much smaller amount—100 denarii in Greek—he immediately demanded repayment. When this fellow servant pleaded for mercy, the man refused and had him thrown into prison. Using the same calculation, 100 denarii would be 100 days’ wages or 40,000 U.S. dollars.

The contrast is stark! The king represents God, and each of us represents the servant forgiven for the enormous debt. When we beg for mercy, God grants it in superabundance. He knows that we are unable to repay the debt of our sins, so He wipes it away with one condition: that we, in turn, forgive everyone who sins against us.

Jesus tells this parable in response to Peter’s question about how often he must forgive his brother who sins against him. Peter suggests, “Seven times?” but Jesus responds with the symbolic number, “Seventy-seven times,” meaning that our forgiveness should have no limits—an infinite number of times. How well do we live out this call?

Overcoming anger is challenging, as we often feel that justice should be served when we are wronged. Perhaps if someone came to us, confessed his or her sin, and begged for mercy, we might offer it. But Jesus teaches that forgiveness must go beyond mere words—it must come from the heart. It must be sincere, complete, and without reservation. Every fiber of our being must forgive. And if someone sins against us and refuses to acknowledge any wrongdoing, the same applies: We must forgive even that unrepentant person from the heart. This is no easy task.

If forgiveness is difficult for you, as it is for most people, consider the consequences of withholding forgiveness. When the king in this parable learned that his servant refused to forgive his fellow servant’s small debt, he “handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt.” Jesus concludes the parable with a stark warning: “So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart.” This should inspire a holy fear in us, often called servile fear—a fear of punishment that helps turn us away from sin. This is a good starting point, but the ideal is to cultivate filial fear, the fear of offending God that springs from love. When we truly love God and experience His infinite mercy, we strive to avoid sin not just out of fear of punishment but because we do not want to hurt or offend our loving Father.

Reflect today on two key things. First, grasp the unfathomable mercy God has given you. Let it fill your heart with deep gratitude. Second, call to mind anyone against whom you harbor anger or resentment. Even the smallest trace of unforgiveness must be confronted. Make an act of your will to forgive, and continue doing so until that forgiveness flows sincerely from your heart.

Most merciful God, Your mercy is unfathomable. I beg for Your forgiveness for my sins. There is no way I can ever repay You. I acknowledge that Your forgiveness is contingent upon me offering the same mercy to everyone who has sinned against me. Please soften my heart, Lord, so that I may offer others the same mercy You have granted me. Jesus, I trust in You.


The Journey to Perfection

Wednesday of the Third Week of Lent

Jesus said to his disciples: “Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets. I have come not to abolish but to fulfill. Amen, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not the smallest letter or the smallest part of a letter will pass from the law, until all things have taken place. Matthew 5:17–18

The long history of salvation, through which God gradually revealed His divine plan, began with Adam and Eve, continued with Noah and Abraham, deepened with Moses, became internalized with the prophets, and was fulfilled in Jesus. Though tracing this history in detail is a lengthy process, one simple truth stands out: After the fall of Adam and Eve, God gradually unfolded the perfection of His Divine Law to His people. In the same way, He draws each of us closer as we slowly convert and are purified through our spiritual journey.

At the start, God established what we call the Natural Law. Adam and Eve understood moral truths naturally. However, after their sin, that Law became obscured and remains so today. God then made a covenant with Noah, promising never again to destroy the earth by water. With Abraham, the covenant deepened, as God promised to bless all nations through his descendants. Then came Moses, and with him, the Ten Commandments, a clear moral code for living. Ceremonial laws were introduced to guide the people in worship, and civil laws helped establish the Israelites as God’s distinct people.

Once Israel was established, God sent prophets to call for a deeper, internal transformation of heart. The prophets urged the people to repent, return to God, and prepare for the Messiah, who would fulfill the Covenant in its entirety.

When Jesus arrived, His teaching illuminated a fuller understanding of the Law. In Him, all the promises and precepts of the Law were realized. Through His life, death, and resurrection, Jesus established a New Covenant of grace, bringing about the fullness of redemption.

This overview of salvation history is not only important from a historical perspective but also offers insight into how God relates to each of us personally. In the beginning of our own conversion, God meets us where we are: He calls us to be His children, and we are drawn to follow His commandments, avoiding serious sin. As we progress, our faith practices, including the sacraments, take on new depth. Gradually, we internalize the call to live from the heart, not just through outward observance. We begin to see God as an intimate and personal God, and we work to overcome even small attachments to sin. Ultimately, we are called to turn fully to the Gospel, letting it lead us into a deeper relationship with Christ.

Recognizing this progression is essential for our spiritual journeys. If we fail to see this path, we might become complacent. Everything God revealed at the beginning of your conversion remains true, but the start is not the fulfillment. As you reflect on your life, ask yourself: Can I see how God has drawn me closer to Himself, deepened my faith, and called me into greater union with Him?

God leads us gently, knowing that immediate perfection would be overwhelming. Still, He desires our daily growth. Each day is an opportunity for continued conversion, deeper transformation, and spiritual purification. The great saints have written about this journey, showing us the way to holiness.

Reflect today on the call to be perfect. If that seems impossible, commit to one step at a time. The road to perfection is long, demanding, and difficult—but it is also freeing, transforming, and ultimately glorious. Though you won’t become a saint overnight, you can take the next step toward holiness today. Say “Yes” to this journey and trust that God will lead you.

My revealing Lord, little by little You have shown us the path to salvation. From the time of Adam and Eve until Your coming as man, You have guided us back to full communion with You. In my own life, reveal to me the path to holiness and give me the courage to follow it. Help me to grow into sainthood, one step at a time. Jesus, I trust in You.


No Neutrality

Thursday of the Third Week of Lent

“Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.” Luke 11:23

It is often easier to remain neutral on controversial topics rather than take a clear stance. Issues such as abortion are among the most divisive in public discourse. However, there are many other areas of life that provoke intense debate, particularly when moral principles are involved. War, politics, contraception, the definition of marriage, and economic policies elicit strong opinions and can lead to discord. As followers of Christ, neutrality is not an option when it comes to clear moral truths.

While not all debated issues are equally straightforward in terms of moral clarity, the Church, through the Gospel and its teachings, provides us with guidance on many critical matters. On fundamental issues—such as the dignity of human life from conception to natural death and the sanctity of marriage—God’s law is clear. In these cases, we must stand with our Lord.

Jesus’ words in today’s Gospel present a direct challenge: “Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.” This indicates that failing to uphold and defend God’s law is not a neutral act; it is, in fact, opposing His will. Choosing sides can be difficult because standing with Christ often invites criticism, judgment, or even hostility from those who hold different views. Yet neutrality in these matters is a form of negligence, which Jesus identifies as a sin in today’s Gospel.

The passage begins with Jesus casting out “a demon that was mute, and when the demon had gone out, the mute man spoke, and the crowds were amazed.” The man’s muteness, caused by a demon, symbolizes our own temptation to remain silent in the face of evil. Though the man in the story was physically possessed, we often experience spiritual muteness, caused by fear, intimidation, or confusion—tactics employed by the enemy to silence us. These same demonic forces work tirelessly to prevent us from proclaiming the truth of the Gospel.

Jesus then uses the image of a “strong man fully armed” guarding his palace, which represents satan and his demonic forces. This strong man seems invincible, guarding his domain with power. However, “when one stronger than he attacks and overcomes him, he takes away the armor on which he relied and distributes the spoils.” Jesus is the “one stronger” who has already defeated satan and all his works. No matter how powerful evil may seem, it is powerless before God’s might. Thus, we should never fear standing for the truth, even when opposition arises from society, family, or friends. As followers of Christ, we are called to speak with courage, clarity, and love, trusting in God’s ultimate victory.

That being said, not every situation requires vocal confrontation. We must discern when God calls us to speak and when silence is an act of trust in His timing. There are times when entering heated arguments might not be fruitful or could cause further division. However, silence must come from discernment, not fear or a desire to avoid conflict. If our silence is motivated by demonic lies or intimidation, then it is a failure to stand with our Lord.

Reflect today on situations in which you might be tempted to remain silent or neutral out of fear. While anger and hostility are not the solution, avoidance is equally problematic. Charity demands that we speak the truth with love, even when it is difficult. Seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit, discerning whether your silence is rooted in wisdom or in fear and intimidation. Commit yourself to standing with our Lord in every situation, confident that He is stronger than any evil you might face.

Lord of unfathomable might, Your power is greater than every lie and demonic temptation. You are able to overcome every sin I struggle with and to free me from fear. Please give me the courage never to remain neutral or silent when moral clarity is required. May I always be with You and help gather people to Yourself. Jesus, I trust in You.


Understanding the Law of Charity

Friday of the Third Week of Lent

And when Jesus saw that he answered with understanding, he said to him, “You are not far from the Kingdom of God.” And no one dared to ask him any more questions. Mark 12:34

Among the scribes and Pharisees, the scribe in today’s Gospel stands out. He got it right, and Jesus praised him for his openness and understanding. The scribe began by asking Jesus a question: “Which is the first of all the commandments?” At that time, the scribes and Pharisees often debated the question of which commandments were most important. From the Torah, the first five books of the Old Testament, they derived 613 commandments. Among them were the Ten Commandments and numerous ceremonial and civil laws by which they were to abide. Some religious leaders taught that all 613 of the commandments were equally important. In addition to these commandments, rabbinic traditions also offered detailed commentary on how they were to be fulfilled.

Jesus enters this debate and answers by quoting the Shema from Deuteronomy 6:4–5 and Leviticus 19:18: “Hear, O Israel! The Lord our God is Lord alone! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength” and “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” These two commandments were clear articulations of the most central duties to which we are called—love of God and love of neighbor. Furthermore, they were a twofold summary of the Ten Commandments, the most important of the Old Testament Laws.

While many scribes and Pharisees were scrupulous about keeping the external law in a detailed and ritualistic manner, they often failed to perceive and live its central meaning. Jesus clarifies this meaning in His concise answer. He does not dismiss the importance of God’s many commandments but highlights their central purpose. The ritualistic laws and moral commandments, while essential, are ultimately means to an end; they direct us to love. Jesus shows that love of God and neighbor is the true fulfillment of the Law, uniting both aspects into one comprehensive commandment that sums up everything God asks of us.

Jesus was not rejecting the necessity of the commandments themselves but was emphasizing that their observance must flow from the heart. God’s Law is not just about external compliance but about cultivating a heart transformed by love. The laws and rituals of faith, such as fasting in Lent, attending Sunday Mass, and going to Confession, have their rightful place in our spiritual lives. They shape us and help keep us close to God. However, we must always remember their deeper purpose: They are meant to foster a greater charity for God and others. Without that charity, even the most rigorous external observances can become empty.

Reflect today on how obedient you are to God’s Law. Most importantly, ponder the depth of charity you have. True charity toward God and neighbor will enable us to fulfill all external observance of God’s Law, but it will not stop there. There is no limit to love. We can always increase it. We must increase it. Charity, while requiring our active cooperation, ultimately flows from God’s grace working within us. Without His grace, our efforts to love are incomplete. If we understand this and seek to love with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, then, like this scribe, Jesus will say to us, “You are not far from the Kingdom of Heaven.”

My loving Lord, You call us to love You with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength and to love our neighbor as ourselves. You fulfilled this commandment perfectly, and You promise us the grace to do the same. Help me to obey every detail of Your divine will and grant me the Gift of Understanding so that I will understand and live Your Law in the way You intend. Jesus, I trust in You.


Humility and Wisdom

Saturday of the Third Week of Lent

Jesus addressed this parable to those who were convinced of their own righteousness and despised everyone else. “Two people went up to the temple area to pray; one was a Pharisee and the other was a tax collector…” Luke 18:9–10

Humility is a beautiful virtue. Even the most public sinner, like a tax collector, shines brightly with God’s grace when his heart is purified by humility. On the other hand, pride is an ugly vice. When pride is present in someone’s life, the soul is incapable of reflecting God’s pure and beautiful light.

Today’s parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector, who both go to the temple to pray, teaches us that true holiness comes from within. The interior virtues of the soul allow God’s radiance to shine outwardly. When humility and repentance fill a person’s heart, the soul reflects God’s grace.

We may all encounter people who seem to radiate God’s grace, peace, and joy. Conversely, we may meet others who radiate judgment, self-righteousness, and condemnation. While we must avoid judging others, we cannot help but be inspired by the genuine humility of those whose lives are marked by grace. For example, even if we forget the exact words of Saint Mother Teresa’s many speeches, her radiant charity, fueled by humility, is unforgettable.

The Pharisees were known for their meticulous observance of the external requirements of the Law of Moses. However, their scrupulous adherence to these laws often blinded them to the deeper virtues that God desires. They became focused on appearances, missing the heart of the matter: humility and love of God.

Praying in the temple is a good and pious act. Both the Pharisee and the tax collector did this. However, prayer that is distorted by self-righteousness, pride, and arrogance cannot rise to God as true prayer. Only when prayer is guided by humility and an awareness of our need for God’s mercy does it become a channel of grace.

The tax collector was humble because he recognized his sinfulness and his need for God’s mercy. He prayed, “O God, be merciful to me, a sinner.” The Pharisee, blinded by pride, could not see his own need for God’s forgiveness and instead praised himself for his external observances. The tax collector’s humility opened him to divine wisdom, while the Pharisee’s pride left him in spiritual blindness. Humility is wise; pride is foolish.

Reflect today on how you approach prayer. Are you wise in your prayer? Do you, like the tax collector, acknowledge your need for God’s mercy? Pray the tax collector’s prayer with sincerity and depth: “O God, be merciful to me, a sinner.” If you find yourself thinking, “I’m not that bad of a sinner,” then your prayer is more like that of the Pharisee. Don’t shy away from the truth. Humbly confess your weaknesses and sins before God. He is merciful. Acknowledge your complete dependence on His grace. Only then, like the tax collector, will you go home justified before God.

Most merciful God, have mercy on me, a sinner. I need You. I need Your forgiveness. By Your grace, help me to see my sins clearly, confess them, and experience the joy of redemption. Fill me with humility, dear Lord, so that I may know the truth of myself and, through Your wisdom, be set free. Jesus, I trust in You.

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