May—Thoughts on Aging

May 1

On the Cross, Jesus says, “Behold, your mother” (John 19:27).  Jesus gives us His very Mother to be our Mother.  And her greatest desire is to bring us to her Son.  We need not fear that attention to her, love for her, will divert us from Christ.  It’s just the opposite.  The more we love her, the greater will be our love for her Son.

May 2

Saint John Paul II encourages us: “By virtue of our spiritual souls, we will survive beyond death. And to realize how quickly time flies is to be called to make full use of the years we still have before us.”  We cannot say it often enough: “Our soul never dies.”  And as our Holy Father says, the almost speed-of-light passage of time calls us to an alert, holy use of every day Our Lord gives us.

May 3

In Scripture, old age is esteemed as a sign of divine favor. Abraham and Sarah, Moses, Zechariah and Elizabeth, Simeon and Anna, Nicodemus—the pages of Scripture are filled with holy, aged people as essential parts of God’s plan.

May 4

At every stage of life God asks us to contribute what talents we have.  The service of the Gospel has nothing to do with age.

May 5

Scripture presents old age as a favorable time for bringing life to its fulfilment, as a time when everything comes together and enables us better to grasp life’s meaning and to attain wisdom of heart. Old age is the final stage of human maturity and a sign of God’s blessing.

May 6

The process of maturing into old age benefits the larger society of which we elderly are a part. The elderly help us see human affairs with greater wisdom, because life’s struggles have brought them knowledge and maturity.

May 7

The elderly are guardians of our collective memory, and therefore are privileged interpreters of that body of ideals and common values that support and guide life in our society.

May 8

I’m told that from 1917 on, when the Communists took over Russia, it was the Grandmas that kept the faith alive with their grandchildren.  Quite often the faith “skipped a generation” but continued with the grandchildren.  In many cases, that is the situation today, right here in our own country.

May 9

In the “Letter of His Holiness Pope John Paul II to the Elderly,” he makes this observation from Cicero: “The burden of age is lighter for those who feel respected and loved by the young.”  I think we all agree with that.

May 10

The human spirit, if it is constantly turned toward eternity, remains ever young.

May 11

When God permits us to suffer because of illness or loneliness, or for other reasons, He always gives us the grace and strength to unite ourselves with even greater love to the Sacrifice of His Son and to share more fully in His plan of salvation.  He is a Father rich in love and mercy.

May 12

As we age, we naturally consider our “twilight.” We are reminded of it as the ranks of our family members, friends, and acquaintances grow ever thinner.  Life is a pilgrimage towards our Heavenly home, and old age is the most natural time to look towards the threshold of eternity.

May 13

It is understandable that even we elderly shrink from death.  Man has been made for life.  Death was not part of God’s original plan but came because of sin.  Something deep within us intuits that.  Even Christ, in His agony in the garden, shrunk back in the face of His own death.  Yet ultimately He chose the will of the Father.  In that choice is our salvation and the roadmap for our own future as well.

May 14

Death forces us to ask the most fundamental questions about life: “What’s on the other side of death?  Is death the end, or does life go on?”  Jesus answers those questions: “I AM the resurrection and the life.  He who believes in me will live forever” (John 11:25).

May 15

There’s a beautiful line in the Preface for the funeral Mass that says, “Lord, for your faithful people, life is changed, not ended.”  Our faith illuminates the mystery of death and brings serenity to old age.  It calls us to approach our own death not as the expectation of a calamity, but as a promise-filled approach to the goal of our life—full maturity in Christ.

May 16

In many cultures, the elderly are at the center of the circle, their experience and wisdom are highly valued.  That’s not so true, sadly, in many other cultures today.  But the young, the middle-aged, all need what you have to give them.  If you look, there will be opportunities to share with them what God has given you.

May 17

There’s a certain “death” that comes as we say goodbye to physical health and prowess and as we experience the struggle of aging.  But God has “new life” for us on the road ahead.

May 18

I often think of our life like the big public swimming pool in our town.  On one end, you can walk right into it—the water’s only a few inches deep.  But as you keep walking, it gets deeper and deeper, and then it’s over your head.  At the end, where the diving board is, it’s twelve feet deep.  In a parallel way, we are called to deeper and deeper trust in our Lord as we go through life, and to deeper and deeper surrender to Him and to His will for our life, until at some point we let go completely into His loving arms at the moment of our death.

May 19

Our life on Earth is beautiful, wonderful, a gift, but it is not the ultimate value.  Scripture says that here on Earth, “…we have no lasting city, but we seek the one that is to come” (Hebrews 13:14).

May 20

Think of death as a “passage,” a bridge between one life and another, between the fragile and uncertain joy of this earth and the fullness of joy which God holds in store for His faithful servants: “Enter into the joy of your Master” (Matthew 25:21).

May 21

“I find great peace in thinking of the time when the Lord will call me from life to Life” (Saint John Paul II).  This life is beautiful indeed, but nothing in comparison to what awaits us in God’s Kingdom.

May 22

A prayer for a holy death: Grant. Lord, that we may face the moment of our definitive journey with serenity, without regret for what we shall leave behind, for in meeting You, after having sought You for so long, we shall find, once more, every authentic good which we have known here on Earth, in the company of all who have gone before us marked with the sign of faith. (from Saint John Paul II’s Letter to the Elderly, October 1, 1999)

May 23

As both my mom and dad approached their deaths, I noticed their circle of interests got more and more narrow.  Gradually they let go of their interests and focused on their family (and after a while, not even on their grandchildren), and on God.  They didn’t want to chat much, but loved it when we would pray with them.  And then, in their last days, their only focus was on God.

May 24

God prepares us for Himself. Gradually, even our ability to do the things we used to do goes away.  In the book, He and I, Gabrielle asks the Lord why He took away her talents.  God assures her, “Because I’m preparing you for Me, so you can put your mind on me.”

May 25

One holy woman said, “When I have a headache, I unite it to Christ’s crown of thorns. The arthritis in my hands and feet I unite to the nails in Christ’s hands and feet, and when my whole body aches, I unite it to the scourging.  I can unite every suffering with His for the salvation of souls.” (See also Colossians 1:24)

May 26

If God gives age, He does it for a purpose.  He wants us to help Him out with our prayers and with our sufferings, united with His suffering on the Cross.

May 27

There’s a great little book titled, Don’t Waste Those Sorrows. It’s a meditation on those mysterious lines in Colossians 1:24, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I am filling up what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ on behalf of his body, which is the church…”

May 28

Some good advice from an elderly lady: “Love people.  Some don’t respond to your love, but keep on loving them all the same.  If someone hurts me, I ask God to bless them.”  Saint John of the Cross advises, “Where there is no love, put love and then you will find love.”

May 29

When you get old, you have to have a sense of humor.  If something gets you mad or upset, look on the “funny side” rather than the “sunny side.”

May 30

As we age, it is vital to come to a deeper prayer life.  In retirement, we have a whole new career: Prayer.  As they say, “Gray power is pray power.”

May 31

There’s a clever sign that proclaims: “Don’t just do something, stand there!”  That makes an important point.  Our culture is very much into “doing-doing-doing.”  This approach takes a toll on the elderly, who can do much less than they used to be able to do.  But from the perspective of our faith, Being comes before Doing.  We are made in the likeness and image of God, and Jesus died on the Cross to save us, to save our Being, to save who we are.


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